Helping the elderly out of the lonely situation
Because he left his work unit and colleagues because he was retired, he has retreated from a wide open scope to a closed circle. His knowledge structure and skills training ability have often not adapted to modern society.
Can’t get along with your children.
The generation gap between the elderly and the young people has an expanding trend. The values and lifestyles that the elderly adhere to are not recognized by the later generations, and thus the intergenerational intercourse often comes and lives separately from the children.
At present, the overall family structure has been differentiated from the 鈥渇our generations of the same family鈥? family, and has become a 鈥渢wo generations of the same family鈥?or 鈥渟mall couples鈥?type family structure. Most of the children are separated from their elders after marriage, and it is rare to get together.
Good children are in the Quartet, and bad children are abandoning the elderly.
Children who have a strong career and a strong heart can rarely guard the elderly and accompany their parents.
Some children with poor conscience are only investigating the inheritance and labor of their parents, but they are completely disregarded by the lives of the elderly, the health (health food), and their hobbies.
Interested in life, self-entertainment.
There are too many elderly people who have not cultivated their hobbies and hobbies. After leaving the job position, in addition to eating and sleeping, they are watching TV and their bodies are unreliable.
Subject to the pressure of “old or not” or the blocking of children, remarriage can not.
As the pace of life accelerates, relatives are busy with the elderly.
銆€銆€So, how can we eliminate the loneliness of the elderly?
Establishing a new social atmosphere of respecting the elderly and loving the old, let them realize the warmth of the whole social family, such as the condolences and services to the elderly who are lonely and widowed during the holidays.
Children should do their best to support themselves, filial responsibility for the elderly, and more care when they are in the field, so that the elderly can enjoy the joy of the children and grandchildren around the knees, the warmth of the younger generation, and not the feeling of being left out and abandoned.
Often talking with the elderly, the old man at home all day, the scope of activities is small, old, frail and sick, coupled with the care of their children and the thoughts of their old friends, the heart is often not calm.
These distresses, boredoms, and worries in the spirit require more exposure and confession.
If the juniors can take time to talk to the elderly and talk about their family, they can satisfy the psychological satisfaction of the elderly and at the same time benefit the harmony of the family atmosphere.
Explore the numerous ways of leisure and entertainment inside and outside the home.
The elderly are blessed with the 鈥渓eisure family鈥? Some people say that retirement is the beginning of 鈥淪econd Life鈥? Without children, they will unload their burdens and they will be able to find fun.
Fish, flowers, birds and flowers, visit relatives and friends, excellent leisure travel (tourism), physiologically comfortable.
Even a little bit good, no matter how good, the humorous leisure master Lin Yutang said: “Name, profit, color, power, can make people feel fascinated, only this funny word is beneficial to the physiology.
鈥?”It can be seen that this kind of leisure and self-entertainment depends on a sound and optimistic attitude, and it will feel more and more interesting.”
Support the widowed old man to remarriage.
Children are no better for the elderly. Some of their feelings are irreplaceable by their children. Some of the emotional needs of the elderly are not met by their children.
Therefore, for the widowed elderly, children should be enthusiastic as “matchmakers” to complete their marriage and turn into disgraceful interferors.